Get crystal clear on where you are and where you want to go by doing a life assessment.
On the brink of each new year, it’s common for a lot of people to start thinking about the year ahead. I have to say that this time of year has become one of my absolute favourite seasons. Partly because it’s Christmas time, and partly because it’s goal-setting season too!
But before you start looking towards the future, it’s critical to assess your life right now.
This step of reflection and review is so crucial to your success in the coming year that, if you miss it, you’ll find that your progress is likely to suffer. And I don’t want that for you, my friend.
So in this post, we’ll look at three reasons why you need to do a life assessment – and why you should do it regularly.
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So with that, let’s get into this post!
A life assessment gives you clarity on where you are
This is perhaps the biggest benefit of doing a life assessment. Although for some people, this is the reason why they avoid doing it altogether!
When you assess your life, you’re able to see with greater clarity, where you are right now. Where you stand in your relationships with the people around you. Where you stand in relation to your finances, your health, your work, and a host of other things.
It’s like doing a health check on your life. And for some people, it’s difficult to face the truth.
If you’re drowning in debt, the last thing you want to think about is how much money you owe. It feels better not knowing, doesn’t it? But ask anyone who has gotten out of a huge debt about the process, and they’ll tell you that facing your debt (in all it’s ugly totality) is the first step in becoming debt-free.
The same is true when doing a life assessment. If you feel like you’ve been doing badly in a particular area for a long time, it’s not easy facing the truth. But staring the truth in the face is your first step in making that area of your life better.
That’s why doing a life assessment is crucial – it gives you clarity on where you are. And until you can see exactly where you stand (wherever that may be), you can’t improve, make progress or set effective goals.
It gives you clarity on where you want to be
When you know where you stand, it’s a lot easier to see if that’s actually where you want to be.
It’s kind of like finding your position on a map. Doing a life assessment is like figuring out where the “You Are Here” arrow is. Only when you know where you are, will you be able to see how far you are from where you want to be.
A life assessment can be so illuminating. And it’s a pity that a lot of people who do them only do it once a year. Because the process of doing a life assessment is so clarifying, it’s a good idea to do it regularly. That way, you’re more in tune with where you are and where you want to get to on a frequent basis.
Brendon Burchard, author of High Performance Habits, said that high performers do a life assessment every week to see where there are and what areas they need to improve on.
If that sounds like overkill to you, don’t worry. Why not start off doing a life assessment more often than you are now.
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A life assessment helps you to identify the best goals for your current season of life
Once you know where you are, and you can see where you want to get to, it becomes a lot easier to create goals that will really help you to make progress from where you are right now.
This is insanely crucial. A lot of people set goals that look and sound great, but in reality, they don’t take into account where they’re starting from.
When you do a life assessment, you can create goals that relate to your starting off point (where you are now). And the reason this is such a big thing is that it means you’re creating goals that work for your season of life.
A goal to go jogging 3 days a week might not sound very taxing. But if you’ve just had a baby, or moved house, or the school run has changed or stopped altogether, this goal could be a non-starter.
This is why so many New Year’s resolution fail straight outta the gate. In an ideal world I’d love to do a lot of things. But if I’m not in an ideal world, I need to create goals that work for the world I’m actually in. This doesn’t mean I can’t create lofty goals, but that need to address where I’m starting from.
Create goals that work for the season of life you’re in right now. And doing a life assessment helps you to do just that.
Assess your life
I hope I’ve convinced you to start doing a life assessment on a more regular basis. It’s at the heart of creating great goals that work for you.
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Here’s to your awesome life!
Creating goals for yourself is very important!
Years ago I told myself to “face the frog”. It’s a phrase I learned when I have important things to do. It challenges me to do the things I dread (bigger tasks) before the smaller ones. Once I get those bigger tasks out of the way first, I feel so much relief!
It’s really a good idea to reassess things in your life every once in awhile. It helps with setting goals
Completely agree! Life is like weight loss… you don’t see things changing each day but the results can be drastic!
Yes, it’s always good to stop and think about where you are in life and if there’s anything you want to achieve.
Halimeh Salem says
Sometimes I avoid trying to do a life assessment. I don’t think I have done enough yet.
You can do an assessment at any time – no matter your age or experience. And it’s good to try and do it more than once a year too. It’s transformative!
I like reflecting back over the year to help make future decisions for the new year. I like how you called it a “health check.”
Ashley T says
What a great read! I will definitely do a life assessment before the New Year.
Janeane M Davis says
Life assessments are good things. One should always know her place in the universe.
Amanda Krieger says
whoo! this is especially tough this year! I’m just trying to make it through quarantine!! ha!
Life With Sonia says
I always assess my life. I write everything down about where I want to be vs where i am. How to get there and Changes I have to make. You also have look into why things are not going the way you want.
Absolutely! It’s so key, right?
These are some really great points.